There is this really well written blog that I follow from time to time. Once again the writer posted an excellent article on an issue that all people if single long enough eventually face.
I also placed a comment which I’ll write here, and I’ll adjust and edit a bit more after shabbos.
Good article. Very practical issue for most singles, especially those in their mid to late 20′s are facing today. Many people get past their identity crisis stage and figure themselves out. However after staying single in their 20′s for long enough they start contemplating if maybe their identity needs adjustment. Hence you see guys/girls dropping shomer negia, dressing more modern(less snius), or conducting themselves on a lesser level then when they were in their younger years.
On one hand you feel that at least you experience the joys of life while you’re in your prime, on the other you wonder if it is hampering you’re long term goals. These issues it seems nobody has any answers too, nor any guidance.